Sunday, October 25, 2009

Cribs

I finally ordered Porter's nursery furniture!... Well, let me be honest, I finally ordered MY nursery furniture. I think the nursery is more about what I want than what Porter wants because I don't think he will really care about the aesthetics of the furniture as much as I will. After looking at every crib out there I finally found one that I think fits what I am looking for. My first criteria was a black crib with simple straight lines. I also really wanted a bassinet despite being told that it would only be used for a few weeks. I just picture a baby going in a bassinet or crib. So, when I found a crib that converts from a bassinet I finally felt justified in spending the money on a bassinet. So I ordered the bassinet with conversion kit to a crib and the six drawer dresser. The bassinet came with the mattress pad and two white sheets. I also ordered the white bumper and a canopy support that attaches to the edge of the bassinet which I plan on hanging a mobile from. The crib also came with a mattress. It should all arrive November 16th. I cant wait! I hope Porter will like it. This is the Bam Collection by Argington if you were wondering.

Sunday, October 11, 2009

10 weeks to go

I'm at 30 weeks this week. I feel like I'm passing the point of looking cute to just being big. I'm starting to feel the extra weight I'm lugging around. Its hard to believe that in just 10 short weeks we will have a baby. I really cant imagine what it will be like. We finished our Bradley class a couple weeks ago. I learned a lot, but I also learned that I really don't know what to expect. I'm enjoying having my energy back, having thicker hair than usual, and people being so nice to me. I'm not enjoying the extra weight and not being able to sleep on my back or get comfortable when I sleep. I'm obsessing over decorating the nursery. Thankfully I have patient friends help me look for the perfect decor and try to help me make some decisions.22 weeks - This is the week I felt like I could no longer hide that I was pregnant. I started to feel light bumps in my stomach.26 weeks - This is when I felt the best. I felt like a cute pregnant woman rather than just a woman with a beer gut. I also started feeling Porter move and kick more noticeably.I went to visit my mom in St. George for her birthday. A group of friends came over for brunch to shower me with some gifts. My mom took some t-shirts from Tom's last job with the clothing company and made a blanket and some onesies. I'm so excited for our little boy to be the most stylish kid on the block!I have an awesome ward. This is the shower they threw for me last Thursday. What a blast just to hang out with these women!Now onto actually ordering my nursery furniture. I bought a rocker and fabric to make crib bedding yesterday. I'm so excited for the crib bedding. I have looked everywhere for what I want and couldn't find it so I'm just going to have it made. The chair that will go in the nursery. I love this chair. Im very happy with this purchase.The fabric for the crib bedding. Im very excited about how this is going to turn out. Im meeting with "The Baby Guy" this Thursday to discuss making my crib bedding.

Sunday, August 16, 2009

I "POPPED"

Last week (21 weeks) was the week I felt like I "popped". My flabby stomach turned into a hard ball making bending over a much harder task. Hello maternity clothes. To me, I look obviously pregnant now, however I am amazed at how many of my clients don't notice or are afraid to ask. I finally told my biggest continuous client just last Tuesday that I was pregnant. They were surprised but excited. They were actually less worried than I thought they would be. It's a relief to not be keeping that secret any more. On Friday, Greg, Tom's youngest brother, got married to Suzy. My other sister-in-law, Sarah, and I were the two bride's maids (all S's). Sarah and I threw Suzy a bridal shower last weekend, I was Suzy's escort for her endowments on Wednesday, and then Sarah was Suzy's escort for her wedding on Friday. It was a busy week. Today when we were eating leftovers from the reception at Tom's mom's house, Liam, my 7 year old nephew, out of the blue told me that Porter is going to be a healthy baby. I asked him how he knew and he said he didn't know how. This was such a strange thing to say because this is my biggest fear. I worry about the baby being OK often. Sometimes I think I can feel light little bumps or brushes in my stomach however I wish they were more obvious kicks so that I could actually feel him moving. Liam was convinced that I was having a boy before I knew it so I hope he's right about this too.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

MY BIG NEWS

My big news is that I'm pregnant! I am almost 20 weeks along (half way). The due date is December 21st. So far, everything is "normal" according to the doctor. I have found that doctors don't give you a lot of information on what is going on or what to expect. So, I've decided to take a Bradley Method class. I went for the first time last Wednesday and I loved it. We talked about exercise and nutrition, something I need a little help with (well, actually a lot of help with). I like having the structure and accountability of a class to get me to do the exercises that will be best for preparing me and to eat all of the nutrients I need to be eating.

Tom hates doctors offices and is petrified of hospitals. He hates needles or the sight of blood. He can't wait for the baby to be here but he is scared to death of the pregnancy and especially the labor. Up to this point, he has tried to avoid knowing anything that is going on with the pregnancy. But this week has been a transformation for him. He sat through my entire ultra sound, has been reading my pregnancy magazines, and will be going with me to my Bradley class tonight.

Both of us are amazed at the miracle of having a baby. It all seems so surreal. We just pray for a normal, healthy baby.

10 WEEKS (2 MONTHS):

This was my first ultrasound. I was amazed to hear the heart beat and see something actually growing inside me. Seeing and hearing the baby made it more real for me.

14 WEEKS (3 MONTHS):This was my second ultrasound in the first trimester since I changed doctors. During this ultrasound I definitely saw something between the baby's legs. I asked the ultrasound technician if it was what I thought it was and she said, "We don't know for sure until the second trimester ultrasound. But, I would bet on it." I had really wanted a girl so this was a shock to me. It took awhile for the idea of having a boy to sink in. I think I was just destined to hang out with males growing up, go to college with mostly males, work with mostly males, and then have a male baby. I have been watching boys and men differently ever since. I think I have seen a softer side of men and I have become more comfortable with the idea of raising a little boy.
18 WEEKS (4 MONTHS):The third ultrasound - the second trimester organ check. Everything looked normal and they confirmed that it's definitely a boy! Tom stayed with me through the whole ultrasound! A first.And what will the baby's name be? I think we have made our decision..... It will be Porter Rockwell Richins. Tom has always loved this name, since before we ever got married. From the moment he found out I was pregnant he started calling the baby Porter (whether it was a girl or boy). I like the name too. Porter was tough, loyal, and brave.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

4 Posts!

I haven't blogged in about 5 months and then all of then sudden I decided to empty my camera tonight and post 4 blogs. So, take a look at the 4 posts below. I'm not promising to be better at blogging more frequently, but I promise that my next blog will be about my big news! Ironically, I enjoy keeping up on all of your news by frequenting your blogs.

Architecture Tour

Tom is my travel planner. I don't dream about going anywhere, yet when I get there I am amazed at the world outside of my daily routine. Lately, Tom has been interested in architectural history. So, a week ago he planned a tour of two historic architectural houses in Los Angeles, the Gamble House by Greene & Greene Architects and the Hollyhock House by Frank Lloyd Wright. We brought along our mothers and had a great, educational day. The Gamble House was built in 1908 for the Gamble Family of Proctor and Gamble Company. I've been to the Gamble House once before during an architectural summer camp at USC after I graduated from high school. I think I have even more appreciation now for the beautiful construction details after working on my own plans for the last 15 years and after working on remodeling our house for the last 5 years. Tom and I kept pointing out details that we liked about the house. What a beautiful house! I would love to live here. The Hollyhock House was built between 1919 and 1921 for Aline Barnsdall. Aline only lived in the house for a few months and then moved into the guest house because she didn't like the house. The Hollyhock House has unfortunately not been kept up very well and is in disrepair. However, it is still an architectural landmark because it marks a transition in Frank Lloyd Wright's architectural style from his Prairie style houses to experimenting with concrete and outdoor spaces. So, what is next on the architectural tour? Tom is planning our next field trip to Frank Lloyd Wright's Taliesin in Wisconsin. I've never been to Wisconsin. I'm looking forward to it. I'm currently reading "Loving Frank" to prepare for my field trip.

We finally have two bathrooms!

We have pretty much finished our master bathroom remodel. We are just waiting for some hooks, the wall mounted soap dispenser, and the glass shower door. This only took us two years! I want to start the other bathroom but I want to wait until we have a plan and are ready to execute it within a couple months instead of years this time.

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